Ecclesiastes 7:8-9

The end of a matter is better than its beginning; likewise, patience is better than pride. Do not let yourself be quickly provoked, for anger resides in the lap of fools.

I’ve heard that patience is a virtue. I haven’t ever heard that pride is a virtue, or that anger is a virtue. This is because they are not. As you experience life, become versed in the practice of patience. Practice listening and hearing people out. Practice not creating presumptuous outcomes before a conversation with a friend you think might have wronged you. Pray and seek God when you are challenged and frustrated, and allow Him to fill your heart and attitude with forgiveness. You will be provoked to act rashly and separate from God in this life. Don’t take the bait.